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Somatic Sexology

Sexuality is a natural flow that asks, demands an exchange with an open heart.

When we realize we came into being from sexuality, our confidence as sexual beings grows. There is a profound beauty in integrating our lust with our love. These sessions are about recognizing your authentic impulses and to go back to your own innocence, your excitement. Where is your erotic potential? Who are you sexually and what are you curious about?

Themes you might bring in

  • Trauma (with or without a sexual origin)

  • Watching porn

  • Orgasmic potential

  • Challenges around orgasms

  • Questions about erections

  • Low libido

  • Insecurity

  • Selfdoubt

  • Relationship issues

  • Shame

  • Sexual preferences

  • The desire to have a richer sexual life

* 'Love for my own body was an issue. I felt blockages and trauma in my pelvic area.

She offered to call first. Her voice was so soft and she was non-judgmental and understanding to my judgments about my body. This made me dare to come.'


​After sexual experiences we can store emotions in our genital area.

For a dearmouring session I take lots of time to let the tissue feel the tension, relax and release.

For any questions about this type of touch, don't hesitate to get in touch with me .

Themes you may bring in:

  • Desire for more connection

  • Curiosity

  • Trauma

  • Grief, anger

  • Numbness

  • Shame

  • Difficult to orgasm

  • Orgasm too fast or without control

  • Healing past (sexual) events

  • Pain during intercourse

  • Inexplicable emotions around sex

Specific dearmouring areas

  • Heart, chest, breasts

  • Inner legs and thighs

  • Genital and anal area

* 'Working with you felt like getting into the deeper waters after impatiently wading around

in the tide pools. You are a bad ass, Femke, thank you.'

Image by Marvin Meyer

All sessions are €95 per hour.
The length and frequency of the sessions depends on what you need, I can advise you in this.
Pricing is included VAT.

Sessions take place in the city center of Maastricht, in my own practice space,
where there is peace and privacy.
It is also possible to have the sessions in your own home or another space.

Sessions can be in English or in Dutch.

I offer online sessions through Zoom.​

Before you book your first session you can have a free of charge 20 minute clarity call with me.

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